Tallulah Willis, the daughter of Bruce Willis and Demi Moore, recently wrote an essay for Vogue detailing her familyâs reaction to Willisâ diagnosis of dementia earlier this year.
Last year, Willis announced that he would step away from the world of acting after being diagnosed with aphasia, a language disorder that affects the ability to communicate. In an update earlier this year, Willisâ daughter, Rumer, announced that his diagnosis had progressed into frontotemporal dementia.
In Tallulahâs essay (via Variety), she called the ongoing period for the family âthe beginning of grief,â and she noted that she and the rest of the family noticed that something wasnât right with Willis âfor a long time,â but that it had been chalked up to Willisâ hearing damage that he suffered throughout his long career in the world of action films.
âIâve known that something was wrong for a long time,â Tallulah said. âIt started out with a kind of vague unresponsiveness, which the family chalked up to Hollywood hearing loss: âSpeak up! âDie Hardâ messed with Dadâs ears.â Later that unresponsiveness broadened, and I sometimes took it personally.â
Tallulah went on to note that Willisâ âunresponsivenessâ to certain things broadened. She initially didnât understand, and thought that her father had lost interest in her after the birth of his children with then-current wife, Emma Heming Willis.
âLater that unresponsiveness broadened, and I sometimes took it personally,â said Tallulah. âHe had had two babies with my stepmother, Emma Heming Willis, and I thought heâd lost interest in me. Though this couldnât have been further from the truth, my adolescent brain tortured itself with some faulty math: Iâm not beautiful enough for my mother, Iâm not interesting enough for my father.â
Willisâ daughter also recounts a moment where her fatherâs diagnosis hit her. At a wedding where the brideâs father was giving a speech, Tallulah realized she may not be able to have that same moment.
âI admit that I have met Bruceâs decline in recent years with a share of avoidance and denial that Iâm not proud of [but] the truth is that I was too sick myself to handle it,â Willis said. âI remember a moment when it hit me painfully: I was at a wedding⊠and the brideâs father made a moving speech. Suddenly I realized that I would never get that moment, my dad speaking about me in adulthood at my wedding. It was devastating.â
Despite the diagnosis, Tallulah says that her father still recognizes her, and that she has begun taking tons of photos and saving voicemails to preserve and âbuild a recordâ to remind both herself and their family of what Willis was like.
âEvery time I go to my dadâs house, I take tons of photos searching for treasure in stuff that I never used to pay much attention to,â said Willis. âI have every voicemail from him saved on a hard drive. I find that Iâm trying to document, to build a record for the day when he isnât there to remind me of him and of us. He still knows who I am and lights up when I enter the room.â
âAnd now that Iâm feeling better I ask myself, âHow I can make him more comfortable?ââ she adds. âIt feels like a unique and special time in my family, and Iâm just so glad to be here for it.â











































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